Will a Guy Know if I am a Virgin When we Have Sex for the First Time?
There are plenty of jerks—sorry guys—out there who will claim that they can tell if you are a virgin or not by the way you look or act.
They might say something ridiculous like if they think you’re a bad kisser, if you’re nervous when they attempt to fondle you or you don’t want to mess around on the first, second or third date, that you’re probably a virgin. That’s absolutely ridiculous.
The only real way that a guy can know whether or not you are losing your virginity by having sex with them is if you tell them so.
So, what about things like having a “tight vagina” or feeling pain during sex? Is that a dead-on giveaway? No. It’s not.
A vagina is only 2-3” long, so based on the size of a man’s penis, whether or not you are lubricated enough and how comfortable the sexual positions feel, you could feel discomfort whether you’re having sex the first time—or not.
If you’re anxious about having sex because you are a virgin, just remember that whomever you decide to have sex with for the first time, he should feel honored and privileged to be sharing such a special moment with you.
You only get to lose your virginity once, so the focus shouldn’t be about how “experienced” you may or may not be, or even how experienced he may or may not be. It’s more about how special it is to share your body with someone else in such an intimate kind of way.
One more thing. If you’re not comfortable telling a guy if you are still a virgin or not because you are scared of what he’ll say or do, that’s a clear sign that he’s not the one you should be sleeping with anyway. Just sayin’.